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Dear inna, Ina da tattoo

Wallafa:
An sabunta:

Iyaye ba sa son jarfa... Ko kuma, watakila suna son su, amma a kan yaran wasu. Domin mu fahimce shi, a cikin gajeriyar rayuwata ban taba ganin uwa ta yi tsalle don murna ta ga danta ya dawo gida da tattoo ba.

Me yasa iyaye suke da rikici game da jarfa? Shin ya dogara ga iyaye ko matsala ce ta tsararraki? Shin shekarun millennials na yau, waɗanda suka saba gani da karɓar jarfa a matsayin al'ada, za su kasance masu tsauri akan jarfa na yaransu?

Waɗannan tambayoyin sun shafe shekaru da yawa ban warware ba. Mahaifiyata, alal misali, tana ɗaukan zunubi ne a “fana” jikin da aka haifa kamiltacce. Kowane roach yana da kyau ga mahaifiyarsa, amma ainihin ra'ayin shine mahaifiyata, macen da aka haifa a cikin 50s. kirga jarfa a matsayin lalacewa, abin da ke hana jiki kyau, kuma ba ya ado da shi. "Kamar dai wani yana yin wasa da Venus de Milo ko wani kyakkyawan mutum-mutumi. Wannan zai zama sabo, ko ba haka ba? In ji uwar, tana da kwarin guiwar cewa tana da gamsasshiyar hujja da ba za a iya warware ta ba.

Gaskiya ... babu wani abu mafi ban mamaki!

Artist: Fabio Viale

A gaskiya ma, na kalubalanci kowa ya ce wannan mutum-mutumin Girkanci Fabio Viale "Mummuna". Wataƙila ba za ta so ta ba, ƙila ba za a ɗauke ta da kyau kamar mutum-mutumi ba tare da jarfa ba, amma tabbas ba ta “mummuna”. Ita daban ce. Wataƙila yana da labari mai ban sha'awa. A ganina, saboda muna magana ne game da dandano, ya fi kyau fiye da asali.

Duk da haka, ya kamata kuma a ce 'yan shekarun da suka wuce, an yi la'akari da jarfa tozarta masu laifi da masu laifi... Wannan gado, wanda, da rashin alheri, ba a kiyaye shi ba har yau, yana da wahala musamman a kawar da shi.

Ga mata musamman, dabarar tsoratarwa ta gama gari ita ce, "Ku yi tunanin yadda jarfa za ta kasance yayin da kuka girma." ko ma mafi muni: “Idan kun yi kiba fa? Duk tattoos sun lalace." ko kuma: “Tattoos ba alheri ba ne, amma idan kun yi aure? Kuma idan dole ne ku sanya tufafi masu kyau tare da duk wannan zane, yaya kuke yi? "

Wani bacin rai bai isa ya kawar da irin waɗannan maganganun ba. Abin takaici, har yanzu suna da yawa, kamar mata aiki da wajibci don zama kyakkyawa koyaushe bisa ga mafi yawan canon, kamar dai ladabi ya kasance abin bukata. Kuma wa ya damu da yadda jarfa za su yi kama da lokacin da na tsufa, fata na octogenarian zai fi kyau idan ya ba da labari na, daidai?

Duk da haka, na fahimci dalilin iyaye mata. Na fahimci wannan sosai kuma ina mamakin yadda zan yi idan wata rana ina da yaro kuma ya gaya mani cewa yana son tattoo (ko kuma yana da daya). Ni, mai son jarfa, na saba ganin su, kuma ba a matsayin alamar stereotypical na masu laifi ba, yaya zan yi?

Kuma ku yi hankali, a cikin duk wannan tunanin ina magana ne game da kaina, wanda ya daɗe ya wuce ta kofofin sihiri na girma. Domin komai shekarunka, 16 ko 81, iyaye mata koyaushe suna da 'yancin fadin ra'ayinsu kuma su sa mu ɗan ƙara jin daɗi.

Kuma idan an ƙyale ni in ƙarasa wata ƙaramar gaskiya, inna tana da gaskiya a lokuta da yawa: yawancin jarfa nawa, da aka yi a 17, bugu a cikin ginshiki ko a ɗakin datti na aboki, da za a iya guje wa idan wani ya saurari wannan. fushin mutum. yarinya. Uwa?

Tushen hotunan mutum-mutumin tattoo: Yanar Gizo na mai zane Fabio Viale.