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Shekaru XNUMX yana son huda, amma duk hujin ya ƙi

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Hoto: Emily Wheeler Fonte: BBC.co.uk

Wannan shine labarin wata yarinya 'yar shekaru 8 daga Devon wacce ke son yiwa kanta ado da sokin ranar haihuwarta. Sannan tana tafiya tare da mahaifiyarta zuwa ɗakunan karatu da ɗakin majagaba, amma kowa ya ƙi huda saboda Emily yana da Down syndromekuma wannan, a cewar masu sokin, yana nuna cewa ba za a iya ɗaukar alhakin wannan zaɓin ba. A ƙarshe, mai suna huda Nicholas Pinch ta yarda ta yi amfani da sokin da Emily ke so, ta gamsu cewa yarinyar na iya so ba kawai so sokin ba, har ma ta zaɓi hanyar aikace -aikacen da kayan ado.

Me yasa magidantan da suka gabata suka ki sokin Emily? Shin sun yi kuskure ko sun yi nasara? Mahaifiyar Emily Vicky ta gamsu da cewa an yi watsi da karatun 8 saboda son zuciya da rashin fahimta game da cutar Down. Vicki ta ce tare da Emlili, sun tuntubi dakunan studio da yawa a gaba, amma an gaya masu cewa sun shagala sosai ko kuma sun riga sun cika littattafai. Wasu sun fi “gaskiya” wajen cewa sun yi tunani Emily ba za ta iya fahimta ba kuma ta ba ta yarda.

Bugu da ƙari, buƙatun Emily bai ma wuce kima ko almubazzaranci ba, saboda hujin da ake tambaya ya ƙunshi manyan ramuka ne kawai a cikin kunne!

Duk da haka, Emily tana da ikon sadarwa, kuma ita kanta ta bayyana ba wai kawai tana so ta soki kunnenta ba, har ma da babban ƙuduri da juriya wajen cimma abin da take so. A ƙarshe, ƙoƙarin ta ya ci nasara yayin da maharbi Nicholas Pinch ya yarda ya taimaka mata. Shi da kansa ya ce: “Idan wani yana da irin wannan naƙasasshe da ba zai iya sadarwa yadda yakamata ba, wannan wani al'amari ne, saboda ba zai iya bayyana yarda da sokin ba... Emily, duk da haka, ta yi magana da ni, kuma ta nemi in soki kanta, ita ma ta nemi in yi da allura, ba bindiga ba. Ta kuma sami damar zaɓar wani abu mai daraja. Don haka babu wani dalili na damuwa, balle dalilin sakin ta. "

Sa'an nan Nikolai ya bayyana ra'ayinsa a kan hanyar sadarwa game da abokan aikinsa, yana mai cewa yana jin kunyar halayensu na kyama.

Mahaifiyarta Vicki, a gefe guda, ta yaba wa 'yarta saboda jajircewarta, ta kara da cewa: “Emily ta fuskanci kin amincewa sau da yawa a rayuwarta, amma ba ta yi kasa a gwiwa ba. Tana son kawai ta sami damar yin abin da sauran 'yan mata shekarunta ke yi. ”