Fetish - menene, nau'ikan tayi. Menene ma'aikaciyar tayi?

Wataƙila, kowannenmu yana da wasu abubuwan da ake so waɗanda ke sa kusancin ya fi daɗi. Mutane da yawa suna kiran waɗannan zaɓin 'yan tayi. A gaskiya ma, tayi ba shine abin motsa jiki ba, amma yanayin gamsuwa da jima'i. Mai yin tayin mutum ne mai abubuwan da ba a saba gani ba. Mutumin da ke da irin wannan ra'ayi na iya, alal misali, kafafun mata suna sha'awar, amma wannan ba shine ka'ida ba. Mai tayin zai sami wasu abubuwan sha'awa da abubuwan ibada da za su kara motsa shi cikin jima'i. Matsalar tana tasowa lokacin da wannan tayin ya haifar da inzali ko kuma baya ba da jin dadi ga abokin tarayya. A wasu yanayi, tayin wani zai iya cutar da wani, kuma ya kamata a kula da irin wannan hali.

1. Menene tayi?

Kalmar "tayi" ta fito daga kalmar Faransanci fétiche da kuma daga kalmar Portuguese feitiço, ma'ana amulet ko sihiri. Masana da yawa sun nuna cewa kalmar fetish tana da alaƙa da kalmar facere, wanda ke nufin ƙirƙirar wani abu.

Masana kimiyya sun bayyana tayin a matsayin wani abu, wani nau'i na yanayi ko yanayi wanda ya zama dole don cimma cikakkiyar gamsuwar jima'i a cikin 'yar tayi. Tashi ba abin motsa jiki ba ne, amma rashinsa na iya haifar da rashin jin daɗin jima'i sosai, wani lokacin babu tashin hankali ko ma rashin ƙarfi.

Kuna iya magana game da tayi a matsayin rashin lafiya lokacin da rashin wani abin motsa jiki baya ba ku damar jin daɗin jima'i da kusanci, watau. yana rufe duk wani farin ciki na jima'i kuma ya zama abin sha'awa, misali, idan mutum ya fuskanci sha'awar kawai lokacin da abokin tarayya ya yi ado. safa.

A yawancin lokuta, ana iya kunna namiji ta hanyar kawai cewa mace tana safa. Wannan abin farin ciki yana faruwa ne ta hanyar kashi na tufafi, kuma ba bayyanar mace ba.

Wata matsala kuma takan taso ne lokacin da tayi ta burge wani kuma ta ɓata wa wani rai.

2. Menene tayi?

Fetishism wani paraphilia ne, matsalar jima'i. Yana iya zama wani pathological samuwar. Fetishism yana cikin rukuni na rikice-rikice na jima'i irin su nuni, pedophilia da sadomasochism.

Yaushe za a iya gano ciwon ciki? A cewar Ƙungiyar Ƙwararrun Ƙwararrun Ƙwararrun Amirka, idan sha'awar jima'i da wani abu, kamar ƙafafu, ya wuce tsawon watanni 6, za mu iya magana game da jima'i. Ana samun shi lokacin da ya haifar da rashin jin daɗi ko kuma ya tsoma baki tare da cika ayyukan zamantakewa, sana'a ko iyali, kuma sha'awa da gamsuwa na iya faruwa musamman a lokacin abubuwan da suka shafi tayi.

Tauraro na iya zama sashin jiki, labarin tufafi (kamar rigar ciki), da kuma na'urori masu batsa kamar sarƙar hannu ko vibrator. Mai yin tayin yana buƙatar ƙarin abubuwan motsa rai don sha'awar jima'i da jima'i su zama masu gamsarwa. Domin jima'i ya yi nasara, mai yin jima'i yana buƙatar ainihin abin da yake so. Kasancewar abokin tarayya kawai bai isa ba.

Kamar yadda bincike ya nuna, mafi yawan masu yin tayin maza ne, amma wannan ba yana nufin cewa mata ba sa cikin masu yin tayin.

A yawancin lokuta, fetishism na iya zama matsala mai tsanani ba kawai ga mai yin jima'i da kansa ba, har ma ga ƙaunatattunsa. Yana faruwa cewa mai tayi ba ya sha'awar duk abin da bai shafi tausayinsa ba. A irin wannan yanayi, ya kamata ku nemi magani da wuri-wuri.

Wani lokaci tayin yana faruwa tare da mummunan hali ko rashin lafiyar hankali, sannan asarar gamsuwar jima'i kawai ɗaya ne daga cikin alamun manyan matsalolin tunani waɗanda ke buƙatar magani mai dacewa.

3. Nau'in tayi

Akwai nau'ikan fetishes daban-daban. Shahararrun sha'awar jima'i:

• feederism - fetishism hade da kiba na wani mutum,
• podofilia - ƙafar tayi,
• autogynephilia - dan tayi ya tashi a lokacin da yake tunanin kansa a matsayin mace.
• stigmatophilia - dan tayi yana sha'awar jima'i ga mutanen da ke da jarfa,
• alvinophilia - cibiya fetishism
• acrotomophilia, dysmorphophilia - gurgunta ko gurɓataccen jikin abokin tarayya ɗan tayi ne,
• phallophilia - tayin da ke hade da girman girman azzakari;
• asphyxiophilia - tayin da ke hade da shakku da kansa ko abokin tarayya yayin saduwa;
• ta'addanci - Fetishism yana dogara ne akan rikici a jikin baƙo (misali, a cikin cunkoson bas, jiragen kasa ko jiragen karkashin kasa),
• nasolingus - dan tayi yana samun gamsuwar jima'i ne kawai lokacin da zai iya tsotse hancin abokin jima'i,
• knismolagnia - ticklishness tayi
• stenolagnia - tayin da ke hade da jin dadin jima'i lokacin aiki tare da tsokoki na sassaka,
• wayar tarho scatology - tayi a cikin wannan yanayin shine tattaunawar tarho ta jima'i,
• pubephilia - gashin gashi shine abin sha'awar dan tayi.
• catoptronophilia - tayin da ke hade da cin nasarar jima'i a wurin kallon madubi,
• urophilia - fitsari shine abin sha'awar jima'i,
• coprophilia - abin sha'awar jima'i shine feces,
• endophilia - nasarar samun gamsuwar jima'i yana yiwuwa ga mai yin jima'i kawai a lokacin jima'i tare da abokan sa tufafi,
• graviditophilia - abin sha'awar jima'i shine ciki na mace mai ciki;
• enemaphilia - an samu gamsuwar jima'i tare da taimakon enema na rectal,
• necrophilia - jima'i tare da matattu,
• agorafila - wuraren jama'a sune abubuwan motsa jiki na jima'i.

4. Menene za ku yi lokacin da tayin ku ya zama abin sha'awa?

Yana iya zama kamar cewa sha'awar jima'i ba wani abu ba ne mai haɗari, saboda kowannenmu yana buƙatar canji a cikin ɗakin kwana. Matukar an yi komai daidai gwargwado, to babu abin damuwa. Duk da haka, lokacin da sha'awar jima'i ya yi tsanani sosai kuma yana faruwa tare da kowace jima'i, ɗayan ɗayan yana iya kawai ya ƙi yarda da su.

Akwai lokutan da tayi zai iya ɗaukar siffar sha'awa. Dindindin da kuma sabon abu halaye, sau da yawa muhimmanci hana al'ada jima'i, su ne, misali, yin soyayya a kawai daya matsayi, misali, "daga baya", ko kawai bayan shan barasa mai yawa.

Nau'in tayin kuma na iya zama haɗari. Musamman idan muna ma'amala da irin wannan nau'in tayin kamar sadomasochism, strangulation, yankewa na abokin jima'i ko feederism. Maganin tayin yawanci yana da tsayi kuma yana buƙatar aiki mai yawa akan duka majiyyaci da abokin tarayya.

Bari mu tuna cewa nasara jima'i mai gamsarwa wannan shi ne, a gefe guda, wasu abubuwan da muke so, amma kuma amfani da dukiya na bambancin batsa.

Mutanen da suka saba sosai, har ma da bin al'ada, ba za su iya cika jin daɗin babbar damar da jima'i ke bayarwa ba. Don haka, idan mutum yana iya aƙalla gwada sabbin abubuwa lokaci zuwa lokaci, to bai yi muni ba tukuna.

A cikin wani hali inda gare ku abokin tarayya ko kuma shakuwar da ya yi da wasu al’ada babbar matsala ce, kada ka yi ƙoƙarin “warkar da shi da ƙaunarka” tun da farko. Yi magana game da shi da gaskiya da farko, ba tare da magani ba, fushi ko bacin rai, sannan nemi taimakon ƙwararru. A cikin irin wannan yanayin, psychotherapy ya fi tasiri. A cikin halin da ake ciki inda tayin ya fara lalata dangantakarku da ƙaunataccen ku, tabbatar da tuntuɓar ƙwararrun ƙwararrun mata, masanin ilimin jima'i. Wannan zai taimaka warware matsalolin da tayin ya kunsa. Masana ilimin halayyar dan adam da masu tabin hankali suma suna magance matsalar tayi.

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